Real Factors About Temper Tantrum

There are many real factors which makes child became temper tantrum, such as :

1. A child is too tired, so that easy for them to feel annoyed and than difficult to control their emotion.
2. A child is failed while doing something, so that they become mad or angry and difficult to control it. This situation could be worsed when they felt that his parent always compare him with another child or his parent has highly demand for his child.
3. If a child has a desire, always be rejected and been angry with. Otherwise the parent force him to do something while he is playing a game. For example : order to eat. Maybe they never think that it could be a problem for their child in the future or next day. A child will think that he lost his ability and afraid of fight his parent’s demand. In the other side, he had to obey his parent’s order or command. This conflict will broken his emotion and someday it will blow up.
4. Child with mentally development disorder, oftenly happened a temper tantrum. Especially, when he felt giving up to tell or express his desire to his environment.
5. The most oftenly happened is a child adopt his parent’s deviate action while releasing their anger. If you care about your child development, better check your attitude and character as good parent.

With those many factors, hopely we as a parent know how to face it. When we really face it, we know what we could do.

The next article, I’ll try to give you a few thing that parent could do to face a temper tantrum. So see you on the next article.

TEMPERTANTRUM

A parent with children under 5 years old may have an experience while their child having strong desire, no matter buy or just have it. And when his desire didn’t obeyed, suddenly he cried so loudly and rolling on the floor. This condition makes you feel annoyed but his crying became mad.

It is called Temper Tantrum (expressing great anger to get what he wants). It is an explosion of child’s anger which oftenly happened in 2 till 4 years old when he tried to express his self-government and negativism. It is followed by other attitudes that increasing your annoyance, such as crying loudly, rolling on the floor, screaming, throwing things, beating, kicking, etc. And in younger child, it could be followed by vomiting or urinating in his pant.

Why is it happened ? It is caused of the children couldn’t control their emotion and how express their emotion correctly. This situation could be worsed if the parents didn’t understand what’s going on exactly with their children. And also couldn’t control their emotion because of feel shame, annoyed, etc.

What are the real factors which makes child became temper tantrum ? There are many real factors caused temper tantrum. If you wanna know, just wait for the second article !