Tuesday, December 11, 2007

TEMPERTANTRUM

A parent with children under 5 years old may have an experience while their child having strong desire, no matter buy or just have it. And when his desire didn’t obeyed, suddenly he cried so loudly and rolling on the floor. This condition makes you feel annoyed but his crying became mad.

It is called Temper Tantrum (expressing great anger to get what he wants). It is an explosion of child’s anger which oftenly happened in 2 till 4 years old when he tried to express his self-government and negativism. It is followed by other attitudes that increasing your annoyance, such as crying loudly, rolling on the floor, screaming, throwing things, beating, kicking, etc. And in younger child, it could be followed by vomiting or urinating in his pant.

Why is it happened ? It is caused of the children couldn’t control their emotion and how express their emotion correctly. This situation could be worsed if the parents didn’t understand what’s going on exactly with their children. And also couldn’t control their emotion because of feel shame, annoyed, etc.

What are the real factors which makes child became temper tantrum ? There are many real factors caused temper tantrum. If you wanna know, just wait for the second article !


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